Once you have logged in, you will be presented with the member's
                                identification and asked to confirm that this the person who designated you to
                                be their Keyholder® .  At the same time, to prevent premature unauthorized
                                accessed to the member's wishes, the member will be notified of your actions
                                immediately and will have the opportunity to lock you out.  Assuming that
                                the member information is correct, you will be able to see the list of items for
                                which you have been granted access, and also their current status: locked,
                                unlocked or visible.  Any item that is locked can be unlocked by you, and
                                again, immediate notification regarding your request to access the item will be
                                sent to the member.  Unlocked items will become visible after a period of
                                time determined by the member.  These security mechanisms are in place to
                                protect the member's privacy and to prevent premature unauthorized access to the
                                member's wishes.  When an item is visible, it is accessible by all of the
                                member's Keyholders® .  In the case of the MyMessages™ item, you will not
                                be able to view any of the member's prewritten messages --- in this case, when
                                the MyMessages™ item becomes "visible" it actually means that all of the
                                member's messages have been sent.
                                                        
                                                        
                                                            If this sounds complicated, don't worry --- it is an extremely intuitive
                                process.  Just follow the instructions on the screen.  If you have any
                                questions along the way, feel free to refer to the online help or to contact us.